New-year is around the corner, where everyone is busy in summarising the year. New year basically brings a new vision a for a year. People around the world celebrate this time with a new resolution. But before this year ends here is the list of 10 things you should before this year ends to head start 2018.
- STOP SEEKING SORRY
We often hold a grudge because we don’t want to let the other person off the hook. But, who’s really hooked: the one who moved on or the one who’s holding on. -lori deschene
According to a human tendency, when we get hurt by someone we tend to seek sorry from them. Then action through which they show that yes they were wrong in doing that action. But, from now stopping seeking sorry from others this means, when you get into argument with someone, just think about it rationally and evaluate that if there was even the slightest mistake of yours then be the bigger person and apologise and if not then don’t keep grudges against the person, forgive them and move on because “the vessel which contains the acid get more damaged than the vessel on which it is poured” this means if your hold grudges against someone it will damage your inner peace more to you then the person you are holding grudges against, since negative vibes will stay with you for longer period.
- DECLUTTER YOUR LIFE
clutter is the physical manifestation of the unmade decision fueled by procrastination – christina scalise
Decluttering is the most important task in one’s life. decluttering not only of materialistic things but also of people who are poisonous to your life. In the upcoming year, you must realize that there is the certain type of people who are actually hindering your growth and making you less efficient and less productivity. It’s better to leave a person who is bad for your growth.
Also, decluttering is also important at the material level, according to a research people who are having a clean and open space to work tend to work more efficiently than the people who have a hoard of books and clothes piled up against their desk. Organising the desk and the room should be the task before you enter 2018.
- ORGANISE YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA
You don’t have to post it, to prove it
When social media is something which shows your personality and contains so much of confidential information about you, it is really important for you to manage it properly. Generally it is suggested that one should change their password every 3 months but due to our busy schedule we hardly change it, so before 2018 change all the important password for security purpose, make your password strong keep the security question rotating and try not keep right answer of security question because right answer is easy to guess, instead what you can do is put second best answer which is little hard to guess. This will secure your page.
Also, filter certain content from your pages which you think is too personal and also the picture which you think is invading your privacy little too much, and try to keep your life a little low key.
- CONTEMPLATE YOUR YEAR
Contemplating is the highest form of activity. -Aristotle
For moving forward in life one must look back and contemplate what already happened in past so we can get away with the errors and faults of past. This process not only talks about the mistake but also about your achievement of the year, things you are grateful for and things you regret doing. Take a diary and a pen and start writing down about the year.
- COMPLETE THAT BOOK
A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies. The man who never reads lives only one.
Admit it, we all once in this year have tried to get a book and read it but eventually, we all failed. But since this year is ending pick up the book again and try to complete it before this year ends. Now, this is not a rule of thumb that you have to complete it before year-end, you are not supposed to keep every important chore aside and start reading that book because you have decided to do so. Instead of looking at it as a task inculcate this reading as a habit and surely you will see have a difference a book can have in your life.
- WORK ON YOUR WELL BEINGIt’s never too late or too early to work towards being the healthiest you.
Before heading into 2018 indulge yourself in some physical activity, the physical workout is extremely important for your body and mind. Every year on 1 January gym is filled with new members because each one of us realise the need of workout at some point in time but gradually we fail keep this habit together and even on 1 January we tens to procrastinate going to gym so instead of planning going to gym, hit gym today because if you start working out from today you will eventually find urge of going to gym on the first January as well and hence you will succeed in your goal.
Also, workout not only means hitting the gym, doing basic exercise or simple yoga could also be an easy way to being physically active every day. According to research conducted by independent organization top spot for practicing yoga are house and 43% people practice yoga at home and 40% people in the yoga studio. Further meditation can also be a great option for increasing concentration
- RECONNECT WITH PEOPLE
Spread love everywhere you go let no one ever come to you without getting happier -Mother Teresa
In our busy lifestyle, we meet many people, but as the day passes they only become a part of our contact list because we cannot make time to talk to them. So, before this year-end send them a message about how grateful and obliged to meet them in your life and also that you look forward to their company. Being complimentary towards people give you lots of positive vibes, a little conversation with people gives a happy feeling. But don’t forget to feel that compliment from your heart because heartfelt praising always leaves the best impact.
- TAKE A DAY OFF
Confidence is not “they will like me”. Confidence is “I’ll be fine even if they don’t”.
When you are always surrounded by people in our life sometimes it is really important to take a day off from everything and everyone and spend time with your self to recharge your spiritual and mental battery. When you do something on your own you realize that you enjoy your company the most. I am not suggesting you be anti-social but I am trying to say if once you will start enjoying our own company you will have a self-confidence that yes if even you have no one by your side you still can carry on with your life and also spending time alone will make you respect the people a little more around you.
- COMPLETE A HOBBY
Do more things that make you forget to check your phone
Every person has a hobby, a thing which makes them happy. So before this year ends to do something like that, if you like to dance, learn a routine if you like to paint, paint something. Do whatever you like and make this year complete with the laughter of joy which you will get after doing what you like.
- COMPLETE THE UNFINISHED TASK OF THE YEAR
Finish what you have started
Evey year we come across many thin which we generally leave incomplete and move forward without even realizing that it requires our attention. Well, I am not talking about life goals here, I am talking about small things like getting your lawn done, your garden requires taking care of. Basically, the things we generally ignore in the chaos of life. Take a day off from work or school and indulge yourself in taking care of all of these things you will surely feel the difference in the upcoming year that those tasks actually needs to be taken care of regularly.
These are few things one can think of doing before the year ends and bring a wave of positivity and productivity in the new year. This post has 10 different quotes each for a situation, I believe you like those quotes as well.
I hope some of them works for you as well, plz do write your new-years resolution for this years. Any other suggestion for this list is also appreciated.